sensitive research - b 1969

[garstonite]

Hi - b 1969 - knows mothers name - fathers name - real name ..was adopted .....has met mum and 3 step siblings - wants to meet dad ....has been told that dad doesn`t know she exists...but at age 45 ,she wants to meet her dad ...
any advice welcome - been talking about this for 6 hours ( she has been on hen party and has just talked openly )
anyone with any experience of this - I would welcome any advice ....going for a sleep now because we have talked about this all night ....I am like a dad to this girl (even though she is 45 ) and would like to help - but - need advice ....cheers
allan....be back about 2 pm ....