Agree with Kite with getting your OH to manage the account, at least to start with, though I would have the tree in your name and simply let him edit it.
It depends on whether you want to contact other people, or if you want them to contact you.
A private, linked tree means others can pick up your Monty surname (but have to do a lot of work to discover which Monty). A private unlinked tree makes it even more difficult for them to find your Montys via DNA matches.
A public linked tree means you can spot your mutual surnames. Best Mate's tree is currently public and out of 23k matches, only 3 people have contacted us in six months.
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