[ElizabethHerts]

When I married I was living in London but I wanted to marry at my grandmother's parish church just outside Guildford (my parents and sister also married there). Also, my mother was living in Devon where I grew up and it was too far away for some guests. By this time my grandmother was dead, so the address I gave was that of a neighbour of my grandmother's in Guildford. My OH's address is that of the flat in which I was living in London as he had moved out of his flat a few months earlier!

When my brother died my sister-in-law had to provide lots of details. Many years later I mentioned that he was born in Guildford, as were my sister and I. She was very surprised as she assumed he had been born where my parents were living at the time. The information she provided at the time of his death was therefore wrong.