help finding Martha Etoe in 1881 please?

[Margaret in Burton]

Martha Etoe, Eato, Eatoe or whatever variation you want was the wife of Joseph Etoe.
Joseph died in 1874 in Southwell district Notts and I've found Martha's death in 1883 in the same place.

Can't find her in 1881 at all. She was born in 1815 and according to all other census in Warsop, Notts.

On previous census they were living in Caunton, Notts

[Sue from Southend]

THere's this one, Martha Etol, living with a brother so I don't know if it fits

http://search.ancestry.co.uk/cgi-bin/sse.dll?indiv=1&rank=1&gsfn=martha&f1=Nottinghamshire&f18=Female&rg_81004011__date=1815&rs_81004011__date=5&_82004011=england&_82004013=nottinghamshire&_82004014=warsop&prox=1&db=uki1881&ti=5538&ti.si=0&gss=angs-d&pcat=35&fh=35&h=17616005&recoff=&qid=998c0578d21d40eea0d4964d5263b6c5

Wrong place of birth but they could be next door parishes for all I know! My Notts knowledge is zero :o

[Margaret in Burton]

I don't think that's her Sue. Martha's maiden name was Barley I believe.