Merry
11-10-10, 10:18
BK6 updated from this thread
if you don't want to read my wafflings, please go to the last paragraph where the actual Q appears! lol
Until today I knew John Lavender (my 2nd cousin 3xrem) had married widow Sarah McCrery (another 2nd cousin 3xrem) who had previously been married to Robert Francis McCrery (another 2nd cousin 3xrem), grandson of the man with the curse! (I feel I'm only half joking about that!!!)
John Lavender married Sarah McCrery at St Andrew's Holborn in 1832. The marriage records for that church don't worry about the condition of the bride and groom, so I didn't know if John (who would have been in his mid-30s) was a bachelor or widower.
This morning I found an administration record on the Ancestry NPC records for an Elizabeth Lavender who was the spinster dau of John Lavender of Revel End Farm, Redbourn, Herts. She had died in 1842 and I hadn't been aware of her until now. This led to discovering her C of E bap in 1828 (dau of John and Hannah Lavender) plus a burial for Hannah Lavender in 1830, two years before John remarried. Elizabeth was at school in Hemel Hempstead in 1841 which is why I hadn't made the connection.
Here's the curse bit.......John Lavender married Sarah McCrery and then lost his only child, aged about 13, he then lost his wife, Sarah, in 1845 and his step dau (Robert McCrery's only child) the following day from an unrelated illness. He then died the following year. Should never have married Sarah, methinks! Everywhere the McCrerys go things like this happen.....
The actual Q is, why would the administration for a 13 year old girl's possessions, valued at under £20, take 24 years to sort out? (died 1842 administration granted to her uncle, exor for her father, in 1866)
if you don't want to read my wafflings, please go to the last paragraph where the actual Q appears! lol
Until today I knew John Lavender (my 2nd cousin 3xrem) had married widow Sarah McCrery (another 2nd cousin 3xrem) who had previously been married to Robert Francis McCrery (another 2nd cousin 3xrem), grandson of the man with the curse! (I feel I'm only half joking about that!!!)
John Lavender married Sarah McCrery at St Andrew's Holborn in 1832. The marriage records for that church don't worry about the condition of the bride and groom, so I didn't know if John (who would have been in his mid-30s) was a bachelor or widower.
This morning I found an administration record on the Ancestry NPC records for an Elizabeth Lavender who was the spinster dau of John Lavender of Revel End Farm, Redbourn, Herts. She had died in 1842 and I hadn't been aware of her until now. This led to discovering her C of E bap in 1828 (dau of John and Hannah Lavender) plus a burial for Hannah Lavender in 1830, two years before John remarried. Elizabeth was at school in Hemel Hempstead in 1841 which is why I hadn't made the connection.
Here's the curse bit.......John Lavender married Sarah McCrery and then lost his only child, aged about 13, he then lost his wife, Sarah, in 1845 and his step dau (Robert McCrery's only child) the following day from an unrelated illness. He then died the following year. Should never have married Sarah, methinks! Everywhere the McCrerys go things like this happen.....
The actual Q is, why would the administration for a 13 year old girl's possessions, valued at under £20, take 24 years to sort out? (died 1842 administration granted to her uncle, exor for her father, in 1866)